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The Marriage of `Umar ibn al-Khattab with Umm Kulthum bint `Ali (Allah be well-pleased with them)

Bismillah al-Rahman al-Rahim


by GF Haddad - Muharram 1425

The marriage of `Umar with Umm Kulthum al-Hashimiyya (6 - 49) the daughter of `Ali and Fatima took place on the year 17 of the Hijra. `Ali gave her away to `Umar upon his request although he was afraid at first that `Umar might not accept her due to her youth and because he wished her to marry one of her cousins among the sons of Ja`far ibn Abi Talib. But `Umar said, “Marry her to me for I swear I have toward her more dedication to excellent companionship than any man on the face of the earth.”

`Umar gave her a dowry of 40,000 dirhams in honor of her lineage to the Messenger of Allah, upon him blessings and peace.

He came to the Muhajirun among the Companions as they sat between the Grave and the Pulpit – their usual place for meeting `Umar to discuss news: “Felicitate this newlywed!” Then he told them he had married `Ali's daughter Umm Kulthum and said: 'I heard the Messenger of Allah say MHMD upon him blessings and peace: “Every lineage and means will be severed on the Day of Judgment except my lineage and my means.” I have kept company with him and wished to add this also.' Later he again said, on the pulpit: 'Do not disparage me [for marrying a young girl], for I heard the Prophet say MHMD upon him blessings and peace: “On the Judgment Day every means will be cut off and every lineage severed except my lineage.”

It is well-known that our liege-lord `Umar ibn al-Khattab  raDiy-Allahu-anhu.gif  Allah be well-pleased with him, had a particular veneration for the Prophetic Household (Ahl al-Bayt) as illustrated by the following additional reports:

(a) Ibn Sa`d narrated from al-Sha`bi and al-Hasan that al- `Abbas had some need of `Umar one day and said to him: "Commander of the Believers, suppose the uncle of Musa, upon him peace, came to you as a Muslim, how would you treat him?" He replied, "I swear by Allah that I would treat him well!" Al-`Abbas said, "Well, I am the uncle of Muhammad the Prophet MHMD - upon him and his House blessings and peace!" `Umar said, "Abu al-Fadl, and what do you suppose? By Allah, your father [`Abd al-Muttalib] is certainly dearer to me than my own father!" He said, "By Allah?" `Umar said, "By Allah, yes! Because I know that he [`Abd al-Muttalib] is dearer to the Messenger of Allah than my own father, therefore I prefer the love of the Messenger of Allah to my love."

(b) A man disparaged `Ali ibn Abi Talib in the presence of `Umar whereupon the latter said: "Do you know the dweller of this grave? He is Muhammad ibn `Abd Allah ibn `Abd al-Muttalib. And `Ali is the son of Abu Talib ibn `Abd al-Muttalib. Therefore, do not mention `Ali except in a good way for if you dislike him you will harm this one in his grave." Narrated by Ahmad with a good chain in Fada'il al-Sahaba (2:641 #1089).

(c) After `Umar saw al-Husayn ibn `Ali ibn Abi Talib waiting at his door he said to him: "You are more deserving of permission to enter than [my son] `Abd Allah ibn `Umar! You see the goodness that was placed on our head; [therefore] first Allah then you [the Prophetic Household]" and he placed his hand on his head as he spoke. Narrated by Ibn Sa`d, Ibn Rahuyah, and al-Khatib.

(d) `Umar distributed garments to the Companions but found nothing appropriate for al-Hasan and al-Husayn so he sent a message to Yemen and had a kiswa sent, which he offered them. Then he said, “Now I am content.” Narrated by Ibn al-Jawzi in Manaqib `Umar (p. 97).

Umm Kulthum bore `Umar Zayd al-Akbar, known as Ibn al-Khalifatayn (= 'Son of the Two Caliphs' i.e. `Umar and `Ali) who became renowned for his great beauty, and a daughter, Ruqayya.

After `Umar died she remarried, upon `Ali's order, with `Awn ibn Ja`far ibn Abi Talib. When `Awn died `Ali remarried her with `Awn's brother Muhammad ibn Ja`far. Ibn Sa`d and al-Daraqutni claim that when the latter also died young, she remarried with his brother `Abd Allah ibn Ja`far who was widowed of her sister Zaynab bint `Ali – an anachronism since Zaynab outlived Umm Kulthum and was present at Karbala – where her two sons from `Abd Allah, Muhammad and `Awn [both named after their uncles], were killed.

Zayd al-Akbar died a young man, childless, from a stone throw in the time of Mu`awiya. Umm Kulthum died at the same time and Sa`id ibn al-`As ibn Sa`id or Ibn `Umar prayed over them, Allah have mercy on them.

Sources: Ibn al-Jarud, al-Muntaqa [an entirely sahih book] (p. 142); al-Zubayr ibn Bakkar, al-Muntakhab min Azwaj al-Nabi SallAllahu `alayhi wa-Sallam (p. 30-31); al-Dulabi, al-Dhurriyat al-Tahira (p. 62); Ibn Sa`d, Tabaqat (8:337-340=8:463-464); al-Siyar wal-Maghazi (p. 248); Tarikh al-Ya`qubi (2:260); Ibn Shabba's Tarikh al-Madina (2:654); Nasab Quraysh (p. 352); `Abd al-Razzaq, Musannaf (3:465); al-Nasa'i, Sunan (4:71) and Sunan Kubra (1:641); al-Bukhari, Tarikh al-Saghir (1:102); Ibn Qutayba, Ma`arif (p. 107, 122); al-Tabari, Tarikh (4:199 and 5:335); al-Daraqutni, Sunan (2:79); al-Bayhaqi, Sunan Kubra (4:33); Ibn `Abd al-Barr, Isti`ab (4:490-491); al-Nawawi, Tahdhib al-Asma' wal-Lughat (2:267 #1219); al- Dhahabi, Siyar A`lam al-Nubala' (Dar al-Fikr ed. 5:22-24) and Tarikh al- Islam (4:58-59, 4:137-139, 4:227, 5:21); al-Dimyati, Nisa' al-Rasul (p. 128); Ibn Hajar, Isaba (4:492 #1481); Ibn al-Athir, Usd al-Ghaba (7:387-388) and al-Kamil fi al-Tarikh (3:54, 4:12); al-Suyuti, al-Hawi lil-Fatawa (2:179); etc.

The following is a reply to various claims and inaccuracies posted at the following site as of March 1, 2004: Umme Kalthum's Marriage To Umer


In Mishkat Shareef, it is reported that when Abubakr and Umar asked the holy Prophet MHMD for his daughter, Lady Fatima[sa]'s hand the Prophet MHMD replied she is too young to marry. If this is correct then think rationally over the fact that, Umme Kulthum[sa] whose mother was too young to marry these people, marries these same personalities, does this make sense?

Observe in the above lines the jump from the hadith "she is too young to marry" to the spin that she "was too young to marry these people".

Rather, as Sharh al-Mishkaat states (Dar al-Fikr ed. 10:476-477), she had been asked at an early time and the Prophet MHMD waited, upon him blessings and peace, for specific heavenly revelation concerning Fatima, period.

This is confirmed by the other version of the proposal of the Two Shaykhs of Islam - Allah be well-pleased with them - Abu Bakr and `Umar, in which the Prophet replies MHMD upon him and his Family and Companions blessings and peace: "The qada' [concerning this decision] has not been revealed yet."

Secondly, Umer's daughter, Hafsa was a wife of Prophet Muhammad MHMD. This makes Hafsa the Step-mother of Hz Fatima and the Step-Grandmother of UmmeKalthum, the daughter of Ali and Fatima. Do you know what this means? It makes Umer the Step-Great Grandfather of UmmeKalthum. The sunnis claim the daughter of Ali married her Great Grandfather? Is such sort of marriage allowed in Islam, please prove from the Quran.

It also makes Hadrat Umar - Allah be well-pleased with him - the step- grandfather of Fatima whom he did ask in marriage and the Prophet MHMD upon him blessings and peace, did not reply "This is not allowed in Islam"!

The reason is, this sort of marriage is definitely allowed in Islam and this *is* proven from the Qur'an. Read again the verses defining who is mahram from who is not in Surat al-Nisa'!

Umm Kulthum was the daughter of Ali Ibne Abi Talib. Sunni Historical evidence shows that the marriage of Umm Kulthum and Umar took place in the year 17 Hijri when Umm Kulthum was 5 or 4 years of age. This would put her date of birth to 12 or 13 Hijri. History of Abul Fida, vol I p 171 - al Farooq by Shibli Numani, vol II p 539

The above is a deceptive way of quoting because the sources only mention the date of the marriage as the year 17. They do not say Umm Kulthum was 5 or 4 that year nor anything about her date of birth. This is your own claim inserted as an historical premise, followed by your own conjecture.

Besides, the "History of Abul-Fida" is by the king of Hama, Isma`il ibn `Ali ibn Mahmud (d. 732) and Nu`mani is a contemporary. Surely, they must have an earlier transmitted basis for whatever they supposedly say. However, they did not say anything other than the date of marriage as the year 17.

Ibn Kathir's Tarikh states the year 16 for the marriage of `Umar with Umm Kulthum; so she was between 10 and 12 since her date of birth is mentioned by al-Dhahabi in Siyar A`lam al-Nubala' as around the 6th year after the Hijra. Allah knows best from where the claim that she "was 5 or 4" comes from.

Among the Shi`i sources that narrate the fact of this marriage from Imam Muhammad al-Baqir with the statement "Umm Kulthum bint `Ali ibn Abi Talib died at the same time as her son Zayd ibn `Umar ibn al-Khattab" and the narration from Muhammad ibn al-Hasan that "`Umar ibn al-Khattab married Umm Kulthum bint `Ali `alayhi al-Salam with a dowry of 40,000 dirhams":

1- Agha Burzug al-Tahrani's al-Dhari`a (5:184). 2- `Ali ibn Muhammad al-`Alawi's al-Mujdi fi Ansab al-Talibiyyin (p. 17). 3- Al-Fadil al-Hindi's Kashf al-Litham (2:312). 4- Al-Hurr al-`Amili's Wasa'il al-Shi`a Al al-Bayt (15:19, 17:594, 21:263, 26:314). 5- Muhammad ibn Habib al-Baghdadi's al-Munammaq fi Akhbar Quraysh (p. 301). 6- Al-Muhaqqiq al-Ardabili's Majma` al-Fa'ida (11:530). 7- Al-Muhaqqiq al-Naraqi's Mustanad al-Shi`a (19:452). 8- Al-Muhaqqiq al-Sabzawari's Kifayat al-Ahkam (p. 307). 9- Al-Sayyid Muhammad Sadiq al-Rawhani's Fiqh al-Sadiq (24:496). 10-Al-Shahid al-Thani's Masalik al-Afham (13:270). 11-Al-Shaykh al-Amini's al-Ghadir (6:136-137). 12&13- Al-Shaykh al-Tusi's al-Mabsut (4:272) and Tahdhib al-Ahkam (9:362-363). 14-Al-Shaykh al-Jawahiri's Jawahir al-Kalam (39:308).

Historical evidences show that Hazrat Fatima ( May Allah bless her ) passed away 6 month after the demise of his father,

Her father – Allah bless him and greet him.

and thus her date of death was in the year 11 Hijri, and that Umm Kulthum, daughter of Ali was born in the year 9 Hijri. Sahih al-Bukhari, Arabic-English Version, Tardition 5.546 - Anwarul Hussania, v3, p39

The above reference to al-Bukhari contains nothing about Umm Kulthum. Rather, al-Bukhari narrates in his Tarikh al-Saghir (1:102) - like everyone else - that Umm Kulthum had married `Umar. As for her date of birth is it is 6 Hijri as cited above.

Then how is it possible for Umm Kulthum to be born after the death of Hazrat Fatima (as) if the Sunnis claim that she was married to Omar in the year 17 Hijri at an age of 4 or 5 years, that would put the date of birth as 12 or 13 Hijri, which is long after the death of her mother?!

The Sunnis do not claim that she was 4 or 5 in the year 17 but 11 or 12.

Sunni historical evidence shows that Umm Kulthum (the so-called wife of Umar) died before 50 Hijri, since Imam Hasan (as), Abdullah ibn Umar and Sa'ad bin Abi Waqs offered the funeral prayers.

Not Sa`d ibn Abi Waqqas but Sa`id ibn al-`As (2-59) and he was the imam as the (universally respected) governor of Madina who had dearly wished to marry Umm Kulthum but desisted when he learnt of al-Husayn's disapproval. It is also possible that he let Ibn `Umar be the imam. In the congregation there was also Abu Qatada (d. 54). This is agreed upon in BOTH the Sunni sources and the 14 Shi`i sources cited above. Some narrations in Ibn Sa`d, al-Bukhari, and al-Bayhaqi state that al-Hasan (d. 49) was part of the congregation, which brings the terminus ante quem for Umm Kulthum's death to 49.

Also it is worthy to note that Imam Hasan (as) was martyred in the year 50 Hijri. [sources deleted]

Or 49.

But then other references show that Hazrat Umm Kulthum ( Blessings on her, the daughter of Imam Ali and Fatima Az Zahra ) were present in Karbala during the year 61 Hijri.

ONLY SOME non-Sunni sources that stand out for their unreliability, such as Muruj al-Dahab by the Mu`tazili chronicler (akhbaari) al-Mas`udi (d. 345); Sharh al-Akhbar fi Fada'il al-A'immat al-At-har (3:198) by the ex-Maliki apostate (murtadd cf. Siyar, Fikr ed. 12:284), al-Qadi al-Nu`man ibn Muhammad ibn Mansur al-Maghribi (d. 363); Muthir al-Ahzan by Ibn Nama al-Hilli (d. 645); and Bihar al-Anwar by Muhammad Baqir al-Majlisi (d. 1111) among other similarly unscrupulous sources.

However, that claim is not found in the 14 Shi`i sources cited earlier nor in the Sunni sources.

The Siyar (Fikr ed. 4:418) among other Sunni sources only name the following Ahl al-Bayt women as present at Karbala' and taken prisoner:

- Zaynab and Fatima the daughters of `Ali;
- Fatima and Sukayna the daughters of al-Husayn;
- al-Rabab al-Kalbiyya the wife of al-Husayn and mother of Sukayna;
- Umm Muhammad the daughter of al-Hasan ibn `Ali.

Sukayna is the one that spoke the famous words to Yazid, "Have you taken prisoner the daughters of the Messenger of Allah??" which words are spuriously attributed to Umm Kulthum bint `Ali in some of the non-Sunni accounts such as al-Raghib al-Asfahani's Maqatil al-Talibiyyin (p. 79) and the above-cited sources.

The only Umm Kulthum present in the whole episode of Karbala' was Yazid's own wife, Umm Kulthum bint `Abd Allah ibn `Amir.

Long after the incident of Karbala Hazrat Zaineb binte Ali ( blessings on her ) died, then it was that Hazrat Abdullah bin Jafer Tayyar were married to Hazrat Umm Kulthum binte Ali (blessings on her ).

It is more likely that `Abd Allah ibn Ja`far (d. 80), unlike his two brothers `Awn and Muhammad [he also named his sons thus], was never married to Umm Kulthum (d. <49) at all but only to her sister zaynab (d. 61).

There is no contradiction to the fact that before Umm Kulthum binte Ali (blessings on her), Hazrat Zaineb (blessings on her ) were married to Abdullah bin Jafer ( blessings on him ).

The marriage of Zaynab to `Abd Allah ibn Ja`far is unquestioned.

Also it is true that till the year 61 Hijri (incident of Karbala ) Hazrat Zaineb were alive, and that Umm Kulthum binte Ali were married after the year 61 Hijri to Hazrat Abdullah bin Jafer.

Incorrect: Zaynab was at Karbala' but Umm Kulthum had died before 49.

But where does the contradiction lie ? With respect to the first references, the lady married to Omar by the name Umm Kulthum died in the year before 50 Hijri, as Imam Hasan ( as ) had offered her funeral prayers. This leaves us to believe that the Umm Kulthum married to Omar were in fact some other lady and NOT the daughter of Imam Ali (as). Roza tul Ihbab Volume 3 page 585 - Al Bidayah wa al-Nihayah - Tareekhe Khamees Volume 3 page 318

This nonsense is definitely not in the latter two references nor even in the 14 Shi`i sources other than the few discrepant sources I've identified.

The Sunni scholar Ibn Qutaybah in his book "al Maarif " mentioned that all the daughters of Imam Ali(as) were married to the sons of Aqeel and Abbas with a few exceptions, but he did NOT mention the claim that Umm Kulthum (May Allah bless her) were married to Omar. The exceptions were for Ummul Hasan binte Saeed and Fatima. al-Maarif, Ibn Qutaybah, p 80


Ibn Qutayba said in al-Ma`arif (Beirut: Dar al-Kutub al-`Ilmiyya, 1987) p. 122:

"THE DAUGHTERS OF `ALI IBN ABI TALIB: As for Zaynab the elder the daughter of Fatima, she was [married] with `Abd Allah ibn Ja`far and gave him children whom we already named. As for Umm Kulthum the elder, also the daughter of Fatima, she was [married] with `Umar ibn al-Khattab and gave him children we also already named. When `Umar was killed Muhammad ibn Ja`far ibn Abi Talib married her. He died before her then `Awn ibn Ja`far ibn Abi Talib married her and she died before him. The rest of `Ali's daughters were married off to the sons of `Aqil and the sons of al-`Abbas except Umm al-Hasan -- she was married to Ja`da ibn Hubayra al-Makhzumi -- and except Fatima -- she was married to Sa`id ibn al-Aswad of Banu al-Harith ibn Asad."

The same Ibn Qutayba also says in the same book (p. 107):

"THE CHILDREN OF `UMAR IBN AL-KHATTAB FROM HIS BLOOD AND THEIR DESCENDENTS: .... also Fatima and Zayd, their mother being Umm Kulthum the daughter of `Ali ibn Abi Talib from his union with Fatima the daughter of the Messenger of Allah upon him blessings and peace. It is also said that Umm Kulthum's daughter from `Umar was named Ruqayya...."

For those who claim that such marriage happened; kindly answer the following questions.


What was the age for Omar at the time of the marriage ?

Approximately forty-seven. Umm Kulthum was between 10 and 12.

When Omar died what was the age of Umm Kulthum ?

Between 17 and 19. `Umar was fifty-four or five.

Could you briefly state the names of the wives of Omar?

1. `Atika bint Zayd ibn `Amr al-`Adawiyya. 
2. Fukayha who gave him offspring. [Mulk al-yamin]
3. Luhayya al-Yamaniyya who gave him `Abd al-Rahman al- Asghar or al-Awsat, the latter known as Abu Shahma whom `Umar whipped for drunkenness. [May have been mulk al-yamin]
4. Mulayka bint Abi Umayya al-Khuza`iyya who may have given him `Ubayd Allah.
5. Qariba bint Abi Umayya al-Makhzumiyya [in Jahiliyya].
6. Subay`a bint al-Harith al-Aslamiyya.
7. Umm `Asim Jamila bint Thabit al-Awsiyya who gave him `Asim.
8. Umm Hakim bint al-Harith al-Makhzumiyya who gave him Fatima.
9. Umm Kulthum bint `Ali al-Hashimiyya who gave him Ruqayya and Zayd al-Akbar but Ibn Qutayba in the Ma`arif names them Fatima and Zayd.
10. Umm Kulthum bint (`Amr ibn) Jarwal al-Khuza`iyya who gave him Zayd al-Asghar and `Ubayd Allah [in Jahiliyya] and whom al-Waqidi also calls Mulayka bint Jarwal, followed in this by Ibn Qutayba, Ibn Kathir, and Ibn al-Athir.
11. Zaynab bint Maz`un al-Jumahi who gave him `Abd Allah, Hafsa, and `Abd al-Rahman al-Akbar [in Jahiliyya and Islam].

Could you assert to the truthfulness of the character of the person who narrated this story ?

There are so many that it is mutawatir (mass-transmitted) including from the Imams of Ahl al-Bayt such as Ja`far al-Sadiq, from his father.

( I am talking about Zubair bin Bakar ) ?

He is "thiqa thabt" (extremely trustworthy) according to al- Baghawi and al-Khatib while al-Daraqutni, al-Dhahabi, Ibn Hajar and others simply grade him thiqa, which is the highest grade of reliability.

Do you know how many children were born of Umm Kulthum with the marriage to Omar ?

Two: a boy and a girl.

Who was this Umm Kulthum then ?

The daughter of `Ali and Fatima, raghima anfuk.

It would be appropriate to mention the other wives of Omar at this juncture, not only during his pagan days but also after embracing Islam. His first wife was Zainab sister of Uthman b. Mazun. His second wife was Qariba, daughter of Ibn Umait ul Makzami, and sister of the Holy Prophet's MHMD wife Umm Salma ( May Allah be pleased with her ). She was divorced in 6 A.H after the conclusion of the Truce of Hudaibiya. His third wife was Malaika, daughter of Jarul al Khuzai, who was also called Umm Kulthum, also she did not embrace Islam and was divorced in 6 A.H. On arrival at Medinah he married Jamila, daughter of Asim b. Thabit who was high placed Ansari and had fought at Badr. Jamila first name was Asia which the Holy Prophet MHMD changed to Jamila on her conversion to Islam. Omar divorced her also for some unknown reason. Omar also had other wives namely, Umm Hakim, daughter of al Harith b. Hisham al Makhzumi, Fukhia Yamania and Atika, daughter of Zaid b. Amr b. Nafil. Al Faruq - Volume II by Shibli Numani English Translation

See the list I gave.

... There was another Umm Kulthum who had been his wife but Historians make a clear distinction between the two ...

.... Yes, and they assert that he married both....

Now I would like to pose the following questions: Who is this other Umm Kulthum that has been mentioned in the historical references ? Is she the same Umm Kulthum that was divorced ( Malaika the third wife ) in 6 A.H ?

According to al-Waqidi, yes.

We also know that there were ' two ' Umm Kulthum's as Shibli Numani writes above, correct ?


Or is she the same Umm Kulthum that is the daughter of Abu Bakr ? If yes then why doesn't the author point out so ? What is the clear distinction then ?

The distinction is clear as day, they were two different persons. Move on.

There were at least nine Companions named Umm Kulthum. Add the Umm Kulthums of Jahiliyya and those of the Tabi`in. The fact that it was a popular proper noun might be confusing to some.

Here is the answer by from the historical documents: After the death of Abu Bakr a daughter was born to him that was named Umm Kulthum. Please refer to the following Sunni references to confirm this fact. [deleted]

This fact is undoubted and irrelevant.

Please also do bear in mind that Abu Bakr died in the year 13 A.H as mentioned in the following Sunni book of reference. [deleted]


This would imply that the original claim made by the first references I gave for the age of Umm Kulthum at the time of marriage of 4 or 5 years would stand correct.

Actually, you gave no references to that effect but conjectured the age yourself, which we established was completely inaccurate. However, Umm Kulthum bint Abi Bakr al-Siddiq might well have been 3 or 4 at the time.

Since for Umm Kulthum binte Abu Bakr to be born in 13 A.H and married in 17 A.H would give her an age of 4 years. Since Aisha was the elder sister of Umm Kulthum binte Abu Bakr, for this reason Omar had sent for Umm Kulthum hand's to Aisha, and Aisha had accepted this. Tareekhe Khamees Volume 2 page 267 - Tareekhe Kamil Volume 3 page 21 - Al Istiab by Ibn Abdul Barr Volume 2 page 795

Except that the same sources state that Umm Kulthum bint Abi Bakr *adamantly rejected* `Umar's proposal, after which `A'isha supposedly consulted `Amr ibn al-`As who supposedly dissuaded `Umar from pursuing the matter and supposedly persuaded him to ask for `Ali's daughter instead.

However, the same sources all agree with the remainder of the sources to the fact that `Umar ibn al-Khattab married the daughter of `Ali and Fatima, Allah be well-pleased with all of them, as referenced above.

Nor is there any contradiction between the two incidents supposing the proposal to Abu Bakr?s daughter actually took place and fell through.

This leaves us no doubt to believe that Umm Kulthum who was the daughter of Abu Bakr was married to Omar and NOT Umm Kulthum the daugher of Imam Ali (AS) !!!

I have not seen this incoherent claim earlier than in the pages of al-Anwar al-`Alawiyya wal-Asrar al-Murtadawiyya (p. 436) by an ignoramus named al-Shaykh Ja`far al-Naqdi (d. 1370) who had the gall to introduce this fantasy with the words: "I say, I saw in a book whose title I do not remember at the moment, that of the Imams of guidance said, upon them peace....." A lie, no transmission chain, and no source -- Shi`ism in a nutshell.

Rather, as all of the above Sunni and Shi`i sources already showed, there is no doubt that the wife of `Umar was Umm Kulthum the daughter of `Ali.

In addition:

When `Ali was struck down by Ibn Muljam, Umm Kulthum said: "Ma li wali- Salat al-ghadat, qutila zawji Amir al-mu'minin salata al-ghadah, wa-qutila abi Salata al-ghadah! - What does the morning prayer want with me? My husband the Commander of the believers was killed at the morning prayer and my father was killed at the morning prayer!"

Narrated from al-Asbagh al-Hanzali by Ibn `Asakir in Tarikh Dimashq (42:555) cf. al-Dhahabi, Tarikh al-Islam (3:648-649) and Ibn Kathir, Bidaya (8:14).

Perhaps it was another `Ali, another Ibn Muljam, another Umm Kulthum, another Commander of the believers? Like they come up with another Tabari, another Ibn Qutayba......

Khateeb in his Tar'eekh even mentions that she tells her father that he called me, kissed me and then grabbed my ankle and said, "tell you father that I am pleased!

Yes, at the time `Ali himself had sent her to `Umar, and that report does state that he had dressed her up. `Abd al-Razzaq's version of the same report in his Musannaf (6:163 #10353) specifies that `Ali had previously told `Umar: "I shall send her to you and, if you agree, then she is your wife and I have married her to you."

Narrated in al-Khatib's Tarikh Baghdad (6:182), entry on Ibrahim ibn Mihran ibn Rustum al-Marwazi, with a fair chain according to Dr. Khaldun al-Ahdab in his book Zawa'id Tarikh Baghdad (5:209-214 #901). Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril
GF Haddad
[Tue, 02 Mar 2004]


18 - Answering-Ansar’s Misquotation and Distortion of Sunnī and Shī`ī Texts

Answering-Ansar Article:
Nikah of Lady Umme Kulthum[sa] (Revision: 1.0.1)

One of the most preposterous notions put forth by the Shī`ī Ithnā’ `Asharī scholars and propagandists to deny the marriage of `Umar ibn al-Khaţţāb with Umm Kulthūm bint `Alī (ra) is that the married Umm Kulthūm was actually the step-daughter of `Alī from his marriage with Asmā’ bint Umays, the widow of Abū Bakr al-Şiddīq (ra).


What is ignored in these centuries late biological discoveries of the Shī`a is the fact that the occurrences of such marriages are advanced to show the cordial relations between the Ahl al-Bayt and the Companions, not to prove their blood ties.


Nevertheless, readers will now see how the inability to grasp this hard-to-digest marriage and impossibility of establishing the step-daughter notion with adequate evidence leads Shī`īpropagandists to misquoting and distorting both Sunnī and Shī`ī texts.


The Exemplifying Case of Answering-Ansar


The Answering-Ansar team, being one of the hailed Shī`ī propagandists of today, has promoted this same notion in ‘Nikah of Lady Umme Kulthum[sa].


They write:


Quoting Answering-Ansar:

The existence of Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr's mother Asma binte Umais is proven from history


We shall rely on an esteemed Shi'a text Anwar kul fi Shamsheerai Ma'sum page 311:


"Umme Kalthum Hadi narrates: Umar proposed to marry Umme Kalthum binte 'Ali, he ['Ali] rejected the offer. Umar then asked for the hand of Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr (who was under 'Ali (as)'s guardianship), he replied that she was too young. Umar said, 'Send the girl to me'. 'Ali sent her on a pretext. Umar said 'Come here and grabbed the girl'. The girl shook free and ran to 'Ali and complained of Umar's behaviour. Umar then waited and eventually married Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr. The people began to say that Umar married Umme Kalthum binte 'Ali, and this became popular belief. She was the blood sister of Muhammad bin 'Abu Bakr".


From this tradition we can see that Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr, sister of Muhammad bin Abu Bakr was under the guardianship of Imam 'Ali (as). When Umar died this was the Umme Kalthum that he brought home, as her father was dead and he (as) had married her mother following Abu Bakr's death. It is the fact that no other women had the same name Umme Kalthum that the advocates of Umar have sought to take advantage of.


If the Nasibi are going to claim that Imam 'Ali (as)'s marriage to Abu Bakr's widow proves the cordial relations between these two Sahaba, we should point out that such a claim is baseless since Rasulullah (s) married widows whose husbands were kaffir.


We already quoted the comments of Sunni research scholar Malik Daulath Abadi in "Hidayaath al Saud" page 359 we are now going to quote the same conclusion that was reached by Imam of Ahl'ul Sunnah al Muhaddith Shah Abdul Haq Delavi who after examining the matter states:


"Asma binte Umais was initially the wife of Ja'far bin Tayyar then she married Abu Bakr from which relationship two children were born from this union a boy (called Muhammad) and a girl called Umme Kalthum. After that she married Hadhrath 'Ali Umme Kalthum came into his house. This is the Umme Kalthum daughter of Abu Bakr that Umar married.
Rijal Mishkat page 115


Ibn Hajr also pinpoints the marriage of the same Umme Kalthum in 17 Hijri. He writes in al Isaba page 323:


Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr was still in her mother's womb when Abu Bakr died in 13 Hijri. Umar married the girl in 17 Hijri, at the time she was 4 / 5 years of age.


All of the above Sunni texts concur that Abu Bakr had a daughter called Umme Kalthum. She was under the guardianship of Imam 'Ali (as), when Umar wanted to marry her Imam 'Ali (as) pointed out that she was very young. The very fact that prior to Nikah Umar embraced her and placed her on his knee clearly points to the fact that this was not Imam 'Ali (as)'s natural daughter, as she was too old to be placed on the elderly Umar's knee. Umme Kalthum was the stepdaughter of Imam 'Ali (as) - the fact she lived in the home of Imam 'Ali (as) led to a common view that she WAS the natural daughter of Imam 'Ali (as). Once Umar initiated his desire to marry her, the intervention of Ayesha meant that the matter was taken out of the hands of Imam 'Ali (as) as a result, this five year old girl had the honour of marrying Umar aged fifty five.

Nikah of Lady Umme Kulthum[as], page 98-99


The subchapter quoted above is based on three important proofs that are publicized by the Answering-Ansar team as verbatim quotes from Shī`ī and Sunnī texts. To a naive reader who seeks to know the truth, these quotes seem to furnish acceptable evidence in support of the notion that the Umm Kulthūm married to `Umar was the daughter of Abū Bakr (ra).


However, when these quotes are individually verified, the matter turns out to be quite different:


First Quote – al-Anwār al-`Alawiyya wa al-Asrār al-Murtađawiyya


The very first quote mentioned by Answering-Ansar is from an “esteemed” Shī`ī Ithnā’ `Asharītext.


Quoting Answering-Ansar:

The existence of Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr's mother Asma binte Umais is proven from history


We shall rely on an esteemed Shi'a text Anwar kul fi Shamsheerai Ma'sum page 311:


"Umme Kalthum Hadi narrates: Umar proposed to marry Umme Kalthum binte 'Ali, he ['Ali] rejected the offer. Umar then asked for the hand of Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr (who was under 'Ali (as)'s guardianship), he replied that she was too young. Umar said, 'Send the girl to me'. 'Ali sent her on a pretext. Umar said 'Come here and grabbed the girl'. The girl shook free and ran to 'Ali and complained of Umar's behaviour. Umar then waited and eventually married Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr. The people began to say that Umar married Umme Kalthum binte 'Ali, and this became popular belief. She was the blood sister of Muhammad bin 'Abu Bakr".


From this tradition we can see that Umme Kalthum binte Abu Bakr, sister of Muhammad bin Abu Bakr was under the guardianship of Imam 'Ali (as). When Umar died this was the Umme Kalthum that he brought home, as her father was dead and he (as) had married her mother following Abu Bakr's death. It is the fact that no other women had the same name Umme Kalthum that the advocates of Umar have sought to take advantage of.


If the Nasibi are going to claim that Imam 'Ali (as)'s marriage to Abu Bakr's widow proves the cordial relations between these two Sahaba, we should point out that such a claim is baseless since Rasulullah (s) married widows whose husbands were kaffir.

Nikah of Lady Umme Kulthum[as], page 98-99


Readers should know is that the Shī`ī text absurdly quoted by the Answering-Ansar team as “Anwar kul fi Shamsheerai Ma'sum” is actually al-Anwār al-`Alawiyya wa al-Asrār al-Murtađawiyya of the Ithnā’ `Asharī scholar and poet, Ja`far ibn Muĥammad al-Naqdī (d. 1370).


And what Ja`far al-Naqdī has actually stated in al-Anwār is:


أقول ورأيت في بعض الكتب ولم أستحضر اسمه الآن ما معناه عن أحد أئمة الهدى ع أن عمر خطب أم كلثوم بنت علي ع فرده ثم خطب أم كلثوم بنت أبي بكر ربيبة علي ع فاعتل بصغرها فقال أرنيها فبعث بها أمير المؤمنين إلى عمر في حاجة له فاستدناها عمر وأراد أن يقبض على يدها فنفضت يدها منه وهربت إلى أمير المؤمنين ع وقالت يا أبا الحسن قد أذاني هذا الفاسق قال وصبر عليها حتى بلغت مبلغ التزويج فتزوجها وقال الناس تزوج بنت علي ع وأم كلثوم هذه أخت محمد بن أبي بكر لأمه وأبيه


“I say: I saw in a book whose name I cannot remember at the moment, something of which the meaning is that it was related from one of theImāms of guidance (as) that `Umar asked for the hand of Umm Kulthūm, the daughter of the Commander of the Believers [`Alī ibn Abī Ţālib] (as), in marriage but the latter rejected his proposal. Then, he asked for the hand of Umm Kulthūm, the blood daughter of Abū Bakr and step-daughter of `Alī (as), and the latter made an excuse of her tender age. So he [i.e. `Umar] said: ‘Can you show her to me?’ and the Commander of the Believers (as) sent her to `Umar upon his request. Then, `Umar brought her close and tried to grab her hand, but she shook her hand off and ran to the Commander of the Believers (as) and said to him: ‘O Abū al-Ĥasan! This transgressor [fāsiq] has hurt me!’ `Umar then bore with patience and married her when she reached the age of marriage. Therefore, the people began to say: ‘He married the daughter of `Alī (as)!’ whereas this Umm Kulthūm was the sister of Muĥammad ibn Abī Bakr due to her parentage.”


·         al-Anwār al-`Alawiyya wa al-Asrār al-Murtađawiyya, of Ja`far al-Naqdī (d. 1370), page 436 [Najaf]


Sunnī texts are commonly distorted by the Answering-Ansar team, but the quote above shows how their dishonesty does not even pardon Shī`ī texts. One can clearly see that al-Naqdī relates the abovementioned series of incident that he read in a forgotten book in his own words, but the Answering-Ansar team completely removes that part and adds “Umme Kalthum Hadi narrates” in

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